I haven't allowed him to come home. He's remained at his parents and i continue to keep house and children very happily. and so every anonymous commenter knows, everything is in MY NAME, not his. its a matter of getting him to go not me having to pack it up and leave.
I have full respect for myself and I've cared for my responsibilities and continue to do so.
If you have the courage and brass to call me by my first name, the least you could do is Identify yourself instead of remaining anonymous in your criticism. THAT IS HAVING RESPECT whoever you are. Do not use my name or i wont post your words to my blog.
GOT THAT?
I have full respect for myself and I've cared for my responsibilities and continue to do so.
If you have the courage and brass to call me by my first name, the least you could do is Identify yourself instead of remaining anonymous in your criticism. THAT IS HAVING RESPECT whoever you are. Do not use my name or i wont post your words to my blog.
GOT THAT?
posted by Avery's mom at 6:47 PM
11 Comments:
I am glad your babies will grow up with a mom as strong as you! I posted before, but I don't know your name: mine's Grace.
thank you very much Grace. I appriciate your upbeat attitude. nice to "meet you"
You know my name already and I never post anonomyous. peace~art
people who want to leave comments, judging you, telling you what to do and obviously not respecting the fact that you and batman's names aren't online are complete morons, who have too much time and not enough family of their own to deal with.
those of us that love you know you take care of shit.
I am so glad to see you taking the first "baby" steps towards resolving this problem....You are a strong woman who just needs to set her emotions aside (unfortunately I know you care for him), and do what is best for your children and in the long run for you as well......THIRD time is going to be the charm!! BTW my name is Elizabeth, nice to "meet you" too!
Art, buddy, peace to you as always (how do i email you?)
Rilah, sweetmomma, thanks for your understanding
Elizabeth, your right, emotions have gotten the best of batman and I. its time to focus on the important and good in life and what comes of that will be the reward for these difficult times.
I preface this comment with the fact that I haven't been in a relationship since Noah was attempting to gather animals in pairs...
I often wonder what it is that makes women, more so than men, stay in these kinds of relationships. I have no doubt that in a fight you could take him 'cause you seem like a scrapper. The reality is that you don't have to keep him around, but something keeps you (and batman) coming back. I wonder what it is? Some sort of relationship addiction? I truly don't know and this is not a criticism, I am truly curious. Sometimes you seem like oil and water and other times you two seem to get along pretty well and are still attracted to each other. It is truly baffling. If I had an answer I would give it, but I just don't. Do you?
katie G., its called "Co-dependancy" on my part and at least i'm able to recognize it. It's also a belife in a dream that we'll grow old together by each other's side. underneath it all there lies a strong determination to not give up on love and not loose faith in my partner's ability to do the right thing. somedays are easier then other's but that's life. marriage is about trust and endurance.
as far as being a scrapper... ROFL!! I'm far from it. I've just got some thick skin and a heard head.
No, you are a scrapper. Take care of yourself and those babies.
i understand how hard it can be to leave.. but sometimes when you become co-dependent you can be relying on an old store of love that really won't or can't sustain you any longer.
for me i've never been happier since i left. though it took me a LONG time to find the strength and courage too.
only you will know when and if the time is right for you.
it is very sad.
but you are a wonderful, strong loving and giving woman and you will get what you need in the end. i have no doubt. whether you are with or without batman.
just keep taking care of you and the babes and everything else will fall into place eventually.
kisses babe.
Yay for you :-)
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